We recently created some videos to highlight how our students are expanding the kingdom using their time and talents. We showed these videos at our annual Launch Retreat, where we encourage them to reach the local schools for Christ. I pray that these videos would encourage you to equip your students to see their schools as a mission field. Enjoy!
Jay and Dawson Testimonial from LifePoint Plano on Vimeo.
Emily Riddell from LifePoint Plano on Vimeo.
Just like in the business world where people need goals, students need goals!
Just like in the business world where people need to see the vision of where they are going, students need to see your vision and where you are going!
“Where there is no VISION, the people PERISH.” Proverbs 29:18
Would the students in your student ministry be able to describe in two words WHY you have STUDENT MINISTRY.
Our students, I believe now, after launching a VISION NIGHT, understand we do student ministry for two words: LIFE CHANGE!!
JESUS specializes in LIFE CHANGE and HE is our ULTIMATE EXAMPLE!!
So before you kickoff your spring season of Student Ministry or Fall Season of Student Ministry have a VISION NIGHT for your students!
At the VISION Night:
When students are passionate about Jesus, long to see their friends lives changed, and want your student ministry to feel like the most welcoming, most friendly place on the planet, I believe your Student Ministry can go to the Next Level!!
Many of these ideas came from reading Jeanne Mayo’s book “Thriving Youth Groups!!” It is a must buy!!!
What this all boils down to is getting your students to BUY IN to the student ministry vision and BUY IN to WHY you do what you do!
This morning, Colin Cowherd had a beautiful rant about how we no longer allow people, and specifically children, to fail. Colin noted how failure is an important ingredient for success. Some of the most successful people were told no or had early failures before finding their way (Aaron Rodgers, Michael Jordan, Bob Costas). Failure makes us stronger.
So many parents are terrified of their children failing. Everyone has to be a winner. My fear is that if we teach children that everyone wins and that everyone will be successful, we may have encouraged children, but we will have depressed, anxious, and crushed teens and emerging adolescents.
Here is the reality: We live in a fallen and sinful world that is difficult and where there is failure.
Jesus never tells us to be winners. He tells us to follow Him, and that He will be present with us in good times and bad.
Now I’m not saying that we need to crush little Johnny’s spirit and tell him at age 5 he will never make it to the big leagues, but we shouldn’t shelter our children from failure. What we should do is show them how failure can be used for growth and perspective.
Jeremiah 29:11 was not written for winners who have never felt weak or vulnerable.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”
May we as parents and youth pastors free students and children from the bondage of perfection and help them become good stewards of the failures they will experience.
Sunday we had our first Small Group Leader Training. Every year we tinker with our training and try to make them better than the year before. We want to honor the time that our small group leaders put in and make the training worth missing time on Sunday afternoons with families, napping, watching football, or getting stuff done around the house.
Many youth ministry leader trainings are nothing more than band-aid meetings. By that, I mean youth pastors helping volunteers know how to better control kids, relate to teens, or address specific issues students are going through. While there is a time and a space for peripheral issues, that is precisely what they are…peripheral issues. Things going on around the central focus of seeing students engage with the gospel in community.
This year our trainings will be less, “here is how to keep a teenagers attention,” and more theology driven.
I believe that if trainings are centered around core doctrine and theology, we will see the depth of our leaders and the quality of our groups increase. For example, this Sunday we taught our leaders about the “Knowability of God.” We concentrated on the idea that while God is incomprehensible, He has chosen to reveal himself to us in a variety of ways and desires for us to ever pursue Him and His will.
After camping on this idea for a bit, we then turned and helped them understand why this is important for students. We examined how discussing integrity and purity are mere behavioral modification discussions unless they are centered in how doing these things help us further know God and walk in His will.
In student ministry, we must make the theological turn. I know authors like Andrew Root are doing a great job of leading in this direction and we would be wise to follow.
If you are looking for where to begin, I would suggest picking up one of a few resources:
1. Christian Belief: Twenty Basics Every Christian Should Know by Wayne Grudem – 9 bucks & streamlined
2. Systematic Theology by Wayne Grudem – more robust but $32 bucks
3. Taking Theology to Youth Ministry by Andrew Root – youth centered & $11 bucks
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Whether you use one of the above resources or if you already have a book on doctrine and theology, come up with a plan for your leaders. Look at the number of trainings you plan to have and let your leaders know where you hope to go and what you hope to accomplish this year. Cast vision for the trainings. Get them excited about diving deeper and show them how it will benefit their Small Groups.
Please let me know if you have any questions about this. I would love to answer them. Comment below and let me know how you plan to train leaders this year!
This week I’ve been busy. I’ve had more meetings than I usually do. While this normally drains me, this week is different. Instead of meetings about budgets, strategies, mission statements and events, this week I’ve been plain old pastoring. You remember pastoring, right? It’s where you spend time listening to people, talking about real life, opening scripture, laughing, sharing stories and praying.
You know at the end of my life I might be ashamed about the amount of time I spent looking for the perfect background for my talk slides. I might regret the amount of time I gave to searching for the perfect video clip. But I don’t think I’ll regret the amount of time I spent listening to and praying for people.
What are the basics skills of youth ministry? If you go by the blogs and books out there, you might get the impression that quality youth pastors have good time management skills, know how to prepare and deliver an engaging talk, have creative worship spaces and have a solid ministry strategy. While these are good things, they will not make you a true shepherd of people.
Pastoral care is the bread and butter of youth ministry. It always will be. Unless we are willing to listen to people, spend uninterrupted time with them and shepherd them toward the feet of Jesus, everything else will be busy work. No amount of flash and glitz can make up for good old fashioned pastoring. The way that happens is by giving your presence to other people.
The good news is that pastoral care multiplies itself. The burden isn’t on you to make sure that every teen in your ministry is personally cared for by you. Instead, when you pour into a few leaders, students and parents they will be able to do the same for others. They will follow your example and look for ways to listen, pray, and encourage other people.
I know we all know this. I know that we all got into ministry because God gave us a vision for life-on-life change. It’s just that we need to be reminded of it from time to time. I need to be reminded of it all the time.
What about you? How will you make sure that pastoring people stays at the heart of your ministry? I promise, you won’t regret it.
